We often think about giving and getting gifts during this special season, but sometimes forget the real meaning of Jesus’ teachings. His commandments to love God with all your heart, soul, mind and strength and to love your neighbor as yourself may be universalized to Christmas aspirations for peace on Earth and good will toward men
Observing the extreme polarization of folks who have different political, cultural or religious points of view over the last decade, we should recognize it is nothing new. We have had divisions throughout history, and it makes us wonder if we will ever change for the better. The answer is yes, if we are willing to focus on the real sources of happiness as well.
We can start by recognizing we are one race and that is the human race. There are no truly black people, yellow people, red people or white. There are just shades from dark to light. There are different cultures, subcultures, ethnicities, nationalities and tribes if you wish to put folks into boxes. There are those that are privileged and those that are not. There are the rich and the poor. As long as we separate ourselves from one another, we are subject to the disease referred to as xenophobia or prejudice and hatred against anyone different than us. Once we are truly aware of core of our malcontent, we can begin to heal.
Now is a great inspirational time to share ideas with an open and loving heart. Sometimes, it just takes a quiet moment. Personally, have you noticed that a walk in the forest or time spent in the garden brings a sense of peace and love?
Most folks say they hope for peace on Earth especially at this season when that message is loud and clear. Many also wish for a happy New Year. 2023 has been a difficult year with many folks suffering from war, disease, famine, natural disasters and economic difficulties.
Spending time traveling leads to the realization that being at peace and happy has little to do with material wealth. You can meet many folks who would be considered poor, but don’t see themselves that way. It is more about having a strong spiritual foundation, family and community connections.
Most folks in Southeast Asia and Japan, for example, believe in the teachings of Buddha that are in many ways comparable to the teachings of Jesus. The rich Hindu prince Siddhartha gave up his wealth and meditated for years until he reached enlightenment under the shade of a bodhi tree, or Ficus religiosa. He gave up his material wealth. This is reminiscent of the teachings of Jesus quoted in the New Testament chapters of Mark and Luke, and repeated in the Torah, Babylonian Talmud, Quran, Old Testament and basically all the major religions.
Perhaps the key to peace and happiness is that it should be coupled with faith, hope and the greatest power of all, aloha. The world’s great religions place the importance of loving one another, our creator and creation itself.
The question is, can aloha help us have ethnicity without ethnocentricity? Can we appreciate that we are unique without putting down someone else. It is so easy to fall into the “us and them” mode of thinking that it takes constant mental pushups to see all humans as connected. We may even expand that connection to all living things. One way to practice is by noting our attitudes about other inhabitants of our global ecosystem.
Let’s take a look at our beautiful Hawaiian gardens. They are composed of plants from all over the world. Some of these plants arrived long ago transported by ocean currents, winds and birds. Hundreds of varieties were brought here by the first human inhabitants. Later, other groups brought the plants associated with their culture.
When it comes to our gardens we may see things differently. We see that it is essential to protect what is unique to Hawaii, but simply labeling life forms as native versus alien and then to infer that one is good and thus the other must be bad is a disservice to all. Our gardens give us opportunity to acknowledge the value of each of the diverse life forms including insects, lizards, frogs and birds.
The message for our future is that it is time for all members of our island community to work together on plans that focus on good management of our resources. It is not a time to be confrontational. We can learn to manage our polarities if we can shift our patterns of thinking.
Maybe if we learn that garden lesson, we will treat one another better! It is the essence of aloha. Let’s focus on coming together in love and forgiveness to bring the real meaning of aloha to our future.
Norman Bezona is professor emeritus, University of Hawaii College of Tropical Agriculture and Human Resources.